Only Two Years in, and its been Wild…

Sexy Mrs. “R1R2Vegas86” We’ve only been on this sexy adventure together in the lifestyle for about two years, but it has definitely been a wild ride. We’ve experienced our hottest sexual desires, brought our naughtiest fantasies to life, met some of the most incredible like-minded new friends, and took our own marriage to new levels we never even thought possible. 

Like many people do before they actually start exploring the lifestyle, we saw it all as just “swinging” and considered it mostly taboo, without really understanding the depth of it all and how amazing it can actually be for a relationship, especially one that was already very healthy before it. That’s actually what has truly surprised us the most, realizing that the lifestyle is actually full of the most healthy & loving relationships who actually know how to communicate openly and honestly with each other, unlike so many vanilla couples. 

We still remember our honeymoon at Sandals in Jamaica, 12 years ago, right next to the Hedonism resort in Negril. Oh the shock we felt when we just started our new marriage at 24 years old, only to see a bunch of naked people dancing on a Hedonism catamaran

We still remember our honeymoon at Sandals in Jamaica, 12 years ago, right next to the Hedonism resort in Negril. Oh the shock we felt when we just started our new marriage at 24 years old, only to see a bunch of naked people dancing on a Hedonism catamaran making out with each other and exchanging partners, while we were simply trying to enjoy our margaritas together on the beach only 50 feet away. Little did we know in that moment what our actual future would hold 10 years later. We may have hopped on a kayak to paddle out and join them!

It took about 10 years of marriage, growing together and allowing our relationship and trust to mature over time, to finally have “the talk” about some new fantasies that had started brewing. We’ve always had an open and honest line of communication between us, so while these new fantasies still seemed very taboo, the foundation of trust was there to finally share some of these new thoughts and ideas. 

He was the first one to share with her, that he had started fantasizing of seeing her be with multiple men at once, being pleasured in every way imaginable, being desired, being touched and tasted, and being treated like a sexual goddess. He wanted to be involved in it, and have her enjoying every second of the experience being the center of attention. She has always been very much into men, and also previously had one experience in college with two men at once, so this wasn’t completely new territory for her. However, while she was interested and obviously intrigued, it did take some time to better understand what this would actually mean for our marriage, and if it could be a mistake or not. She was open though to keeping the conversation going, and do some more research together to see if we could actually create the “scenario” we were looking for. 

We began looking together for single males on vanilla dating apps, because we knew nothing about the actual Lifestyle apps that were out there. As you can imagine, that was quite a disaster! It turned out that through those apps, it wasn’t quite so easy to create the dynamic we were looking for. We were getting a little frustrated, and started to question if maybe it all just needed to just remain a “fantasy” for a reason. 

Then things shifted for us, and the ideas and conversations started to get exciting again. We found a much more lifestyle-oriented app called 3Fun, and began considering looking for couples instead of single males. We thought that perhaps if we had our first sexual experience outside of marriage with another couple, it would have a more balanced dynamic of trust and respect, and they would better understand what we were looking for since they were looking for the same. 

Well, we were definitely right about that. We finally connected to an attractive younger couple on 3Fun from Utah, and we immediately felt so relieved at how much they understood what we were looking for and how it was still a big deal for us to take that step. They clearly wanted to pop our lifestyle cherry, and we were becoming increasingly more comfortable with the idea of letting them. After a few chats over video, with some teasing and dirty conversation, they planned a trip to Vegas to come meet us in person. We were definitely nervous about the possibilities for our meetup, but also both clearly getting VERY excited about how fun it could be as well. 

They arrived in Vegas on a Friday and we immediately hit it off, flirting, teasing, and feeling the sexual tension build. The taboo of it all was so sexy, scandalous, and yet ironically made us feel more connected as husband & wife than ever before.

They arrived in Vegas on a Friday and we immediately hit it off, flirting, teasing, and feeling the sexual tension build. The taboo of it all was so sexy, scandalous, and yet ironically made us feel more connected as husband & wife than ever before. As night arrived, that burning desire and excitement was building between all four of us to test these new boundaries. Being the lifestyle pros they were, and with us being a little nervous, they helped nudge things along for us with some playful sexual dares. The first dare was for our female half to passionately kiss their female half, which of course was sensual and hot. Then the wife of the other couple proceeded to push things a little further, asking our female half to get on her hands and knees in her sexy purple dress, and then slowly slide it up over her ass so the husband could softly kiss and taste her thong, which was definitely starting to get dripping wet as we proceeded through these naughty dares. Our male half was getting so turned on, watching the ladies make out and then seeing another man with his face in her ass, licking and kissing passionately over her panties. Then the next dare came from their husband, telling his wife to lay on her back with her legs spread and slide up her dress while our male half slowly licked and slid his hands up her inner thighs, turning her on and making her equally as wet. 

The sexual tension was just becoming unbearable between all of us, and the husband lifted up our female half with her legs around him, asked for consent to take her dress off and continue pleasuring her in the same room, and well… that’s when the sex party started and our lifestyle journey had officially begun. Before we knew it, we were all naked, sucking, kissing, licking, fucking, moaning, and loving watching every single second of seeing each other experience it. We felt incredibly connected, even while watching each other fuck someone else, and couldn’t believe how much MORE it made us feel that love for each other. Seeing each other pleasuring and being pleasured, hearing each other moaning and enjoying every second of this wild night. 

Now we were officially in it, and there was no looking back. In fact, there was a lot more looking forward, to the next time we could recreate an experience similar or even hotter than the first. Over the last two years in the lifestyle, we’ve made the most incredible friends, been to some absurdly fun hotel takeovers, amazing sex clubs, and continue to explore what other fantasies and dynamics we can try together that would be new and exciting. Our marriage and relationship is stronger than it’s ever been before, our communication and level of trust is incredible, and we are honestly so grateful that we found the lifestyle and had the courage to give it a chance. 

Now we just need to somehow get all of our vanilla friends to see the light!