From Casual Encounters

Confessions of a Hostess

By Whitney (aka BellaColorado)

Hello, sexy readers!

Online, I go by BellaColorado, but my friends know me as Whitney — usually the life of the party, and more often, the one hosting it.

The First Temptation

I tiptoed into what I didn’t even know was called the lifestyle in my twenties. My first casual encounter was literally off “Casual Encounters.” I was a hard-bodied twenty-something with a growing curiosity about threesomes. I didn’t want it to be with a friend or an ex — I wanted anonymity, excitement, and something taboo.

After chatting with a few couples, I chose one that felt right — a married pair in their forties. My drive to their suburban home was a mix of guilt, adrenaline, and raw anticipation. My body buzzed with that same forbidden thrill I’d felt as a teenager sneaking a peek at my dad’s hidden Playboys.

At the door stood an attractive, fit, and welcoming couple who instantly put me at ease — though part of me didn’t wantto be at ease. I wanted the nerves, the taboo, the edge. That night was a blur of touch, lips, and pure pleasure. They knew exactly how to make me tremble, and I left their house with shaking legs and a secret I thought I’d take to my grave.

Or so I thought.

Awakening the Unicorn

I moved through that red-lit room filled with heat, bodies, and energy that pulsed like a heartbeat. It was raw, it was real, and it was mine.

Months later, I couldn’t shake the memory. I wanted to experience that freedom again — this time, on my own terms. I walked into a local sex club as a unicorn, completely unprepared for the attention I would get. Every set of eyes in the room seemed to find me, but always with respect.

That night was electric. I felt powerful — desired but in control. I moved through that red-lit room filled with heat, bodies, and energy that pulsed like a heartbeat. It was raw, it was real, and it was mine.

Years Later…

Life took me elsewhere. I got married. My husband wasn’t interested in the lifestyle, and that was okay — I stayed faithful, because consent and respect are the backbone of everything this community stands for.

After our divorce, on a long drive, I started thinking about my past — and that memory came rushing back. I remembered how alive I’d felt, and I knew I wanted to return. So when I got home, I freshened up and headed back to that same club after nearly ten years away.

The moment I walked in, I was home. The energy was just as intoxicating. I floated through the crowd, playful but selective, connecting with new people, and later, sharing unforgettable moments by the pool and in the hot tub. That night, I wasn’t just participating — I was reclaiming myself.

Becoming the Hostess

…Nothing compares to that moment during an event when I pull back a curtain and see it all come alive —

Now, I’m known for creating unforgettable lifestyle experiences in Denver — from hotel takeovers to full club buyouts. I spend hours behind the scenes crafting every detail, making sure every guest feels safe, welcomed, and free to explore.

And yet, nothing compares to that moment during an event when I pull back a curtain and see it all come alive — couples connecting, groups laughing, new friends discovering themselves. Sometimes, I slip out of my hostess lingerie for a little fun of my own, letting the voyeurs watch as I become part of the energy I helped create.

Reflections From the Lifestyle

• Respect, consent, and communication are the foundation — and the turn-on.
• Single men get a bad rap, but most are respectful, kind, and bring great energy. The lifestyle naturally filters out those who don’t fit.
• It’s one of the most inclusive, safe, and authentic communities you’ll ever find.

A Final Word

To every reader exploring their authentic sexuality — you’re not alone. It takes courage to embrace who you are, and this community is filled with people just like you: curious, open, respectful, and ready to connect.

If you’re ever in Denver, look up BelleEvents or BellaColorado2 — and say hello. You might just find yourself at one of my parties, surrounded by laughter, desire, and a whole lot of unforgettable energy.xual desire you can imagine, without shame or condemnation.  Immersed in pure sexual fulfillment!