In 2021 My Whole Life Was Transformed

Hello world! I’m Sam! In 2021 my whole life transformed, my new chapter began and it’s been a hell of a ride so far.

My husband of 15 years came to me and suggested we spice some things up, I mean why not? I am bi-sexual and we took the introductory step into the lifestyle, the hunt for the unicorn. We quickly learned that was not as fun as we thought it would be! So, the hunt and journey continued. We thought having all these rules going into it was what we were supposed to do because of all the advice were given. Yes, as you start down the road, great! But now, there really aren’t too many rules we have because otherwise how will we know if we do or don’t like something. I love this lifestyle because it challenges us so that we can continue to grow finding our deepest and dirtiest desires. We mostly play in a stag and vixen dynamic with the occasional swap in there. 

This journey has given me a lot of growth by learning the importance of communication, trust, confidence and reconnection to my partner. Although there can be challenges, I have never felt so sexually free. My desires and curiosities continue to change and am looking to push the limits to explore each one of those.

I have been fortunate enough to meet some amazing friends along the way that I never thought I would appreciate as much as I do. I love networking through this LS community and seeing where the next steps might take me. I am quickly learning that I don’t think I am comfortable with just moving through this adventure quietly, I want to make a loud imprint and unapologetically do me!

We have continued to evolve over the last couple of years into what may not be considered the traditional swinger definition, but that is alright with me! We are living our best and most fulfilled life and being nothing but authentically us and having fun while doing it….